Buying a Home With a Friend or Family Member: Smart or Risky?
- Scott Sweeney
- Apr 25
- 3 min read
With home prices climbing and affordability top of mind, many buyers are considering alternative ways to purchase a home—including teaming up with a friend or family member. While co-ownership can be a smart way to share costs and responsibilities, it also comes with potential risks. Here's what you should know before you go in on a home together.
💰 Why People Choose Co-Ownership
Buying a home with someone else offers some serious advantages:
Shared Financial Burden: Splitting the down payment, mortgage, and ongoing expenses can make homeownership more accessible.
Stronger Buying Power: Combined incomes may allow you to qualify for a better loan or afford a larger or more desirable property.
Investment Opportunity: For some, this is a strategic move to build equity and invest in real estate sooner.
⚠️ The Potential Risks
But just like any partnership, co-owning a home has its downsides:
Legal and Financial Ties: If one party can’t make payments or wants to sell early, it affects both parties.
Disagreements: Differences in lifestyle, maintenance preferences, or long-term goals can create tension.
Credit Consequences: If one person misses a mortgage payment, both credit scores could be impacted.
📝 How to Protect Yourselves
If you’re thinking about buying a home with someone else, planning ahead is key:
1. Create a Co-Ownership Agreement
This legal document should outline:
Ownership percentage
Who pays what (mortgage, utilities, repairs, etc.)
How decisions are made
What happens if one person wants to sell or move out
2. Decide on Title and Ownership Structure
There are several ways to hold title, such as:
Joint Tenancy (equal ownership, right of survivorship)
Tenants in Common (can own unequal shares, pass to heirs) Talk to a real estate attorney to choose what’s right for you.
3. Get Pre-Approved Together
Work with a lender who understands co-ownership financing. All parties’ income, debts, and credit will be considered.
4. Plan an Exit Strategy
Discuss your long-term goals and create a plan for selling, refinancing, or buying each other out down the road.
🏡 Is It Smart or Risky?
The answer is: it depends on your relationship, communication, and planning. Co-ownership can be a smart way to break into the market, especially in competitive areas—but it only works if everyone is on the same page.
Thinking about buying a home with someone? Let's chat about how to structure the purchase to protect your finances and future.
Scott Sweeney
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